Maybe you feel something strange about your best friend lately. Like rarely asking how you are, late replying to chats, rarely picking up the phone from you to refusing when asked to go out?
Hmm, it could be because it's not because it's busy. It could be that there is something wrong with you that makes your best friend change.
Well, here are 4 habits that make friends stay away. Anything? Let's take a look below, let's go!
1. Often gossips about friends behind their back
Do you often gossip about your friends behind their backs? This habit is quite often done by women when they are hanging out with other friends. As if by gossiping, the conversation will feel more connected and exciting, even though the gossiped person is his own friend.
Gossiping about friends behind their backs, especially in the midst of other mutual friends, can make your best friend feel ill, disappointed, and angry if she finds out about it. In fact, he can stay away from you and don't want to be friends with you anymore.
If there really is something about him that doesn't please your heart, it would be better if you talk to him directly. Don't even talk about the ugliness of your own best friend behind his back, which can make him hurt.
2. Too Cool with New Friends
Having new friends is fun. But, if you are too busy with new friends to forget about old friends, then it is not surprising that your best friend chooses to stay away from you.
It could be that your best friend feels jealous because you spend more time with new friends than he does. As a result, when you start to invite him to play, he also looks lazy and reluctant.
3. Easy to Judge
If you have a judgmental habit, then this can also trigger your best friend to stay away, you know. It's too easy or too often to judge what your best friend does that you don't think should, can hurt her feelings too.
Therefore, before it is easy to judge your friend, you should need to know the background of why something was done. Just like you've done something you shouldn't, there must be a reason behind it, right? Therefore, judge wisely!
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4. There is always no feedback from you
Friendship relations of course must also be reciprocal with each other. However, if all this time you've always hoped for more from your friend and didn't return it with things you could do, then gradually your best friend will become lazy and want to keep their distance from you.
Therefore, friendly relations need to give and take each other. Don't just want to always be the one receiving it.
Those are some habits that can cause your best friend to stay away. Therefore, if you have some habits like the ones above, fix them right away!