TV station Mnet has completed the last episode of the variety show We Became a Family last January 2022. We Became a Family itself has a format that brings together artists from various backgrounds to become a family. Among the families that were formed were the married couple Yesung SUPER JUNIOR and female idol and actress Im Na Young.
The awkward first meeting of the two gives the impression of matchmaking in their marriage. The following are tips for having a sweet matchmaking relationship in the style of the Yesung and Im Na Young couple.
1. Slow Approach Process
The awkward feeling is undeniable when Yesung and Im Na Young have to act as husband and wife while the two are meeting and interacting for the first time in We Become a Family.
Because they still don't know each other well, Yesung and Im Na Young ask to take care of each other while they are married. Each of them paid little attention and full of sincere feelings. Through this little attention, the fluttering feeling will begin to recognize the meaning of love.
2. Make Mutual Rules in Relationships
Mutually agreed rules are very important in a marital relationship. With a rule, couples can avoid conflict and better understand the necessary needs. After officially becoming husband and wife, Yesung and Im Na Young wrote down the rules together in their new status.
Both of them have quite a number of rules that will help their approach process such as calling according to the specified nickname, complimenting each other when one of them does a good job, going on vacation to exchange hobbies, speaking formally when arguing, dividing homework, always wearing rings. marriage, and introduce each other close friends.
3. The Language of Conveying Love
A marital relationship will run harmoniously when a husband and wife express feelings of love to each other. Yesung and Im Na Young have almost the same love language in expressing affection.
Both of them like to give gifts to each other, like Yesung who gave Im Na Young a necklace and a bouquet of flowers when the two went to a cafe. Meanwhile, Na Young plans Yesung's birthday party by making cakes, seaweed soup, and key rings as gifts.
It's not enough with gifts, the couple also often throws compliments to light bits as a form of feeling of love.
4. Introducing Your Spouse to Family Members and Friends
Although it sounds trivial, introducing your partner to family members and friends can make a marriage relationship last longer. From family and friends, a person can get to know his partner better. Family and friends will easily tell the couple's good and bad habits. Just like what Yesung did to Im Na Young.
The singer introduced Im Na Young to her younger sister, Kim Jong Jin and two of her close friends. From the meeting, Im Na Young heard many stories about Yesung that she had never known. Im Na Young also received love and support from those closest to Yesung.
5. Cherish Every Memories Together
Towards the end of the show Yesung and Im Na Young will return to their original lives, releasing the status of husband and wife throughout the episode of We Become a Family. At the end of the show they parted in a sweet way.
Yesung gave a photo album containing his togetherness with his wife which was immortalized in the photo along with an expression of his feelings for Im Na Young. This made Im Na Young moved to remember all the beautiful memories she had with Yesung.
As if not wanting to separate, the couple thanked each other for the happiness they had received during their husband and wife relationship.
Arranged marriages do not always end badly. Some of the tips above can be applied in dealing with an awkward matchmaking relationship. Dare to know more deeply is the right step to build the progress of a relationship.