Greetings a household there will certainly be various tests that test the husband-wife relationship. This bad relationship can then affect sexual activity.
Then, what if we as wives don't want to have sex? Is it true that a wife who refuses her husband's request to have sex is called a sin?
Basically a wife does have an obligation to obey her husband's wishes and requests, including having sex.
If there are no obstacles or excuses such as being sick or experiencing certain problems that make the body and mind unable to serve the husband's wishes, then it is obligatory for the wife to accept her husband's request to have sex.
If this is done happily, sincerely, and willingly to get the pleasure of the husband, continued Gus Fahrur, the wife will get the reward of heaven.
On the other hand, if he refuses his husband's invitation because he is lazy or for no other obvious reason, the wife, will sin. This was also conveyed by the Prophet SAW in his saying.
"When a man invites his wife nicely to bed (having sex), then the wife strongly refuses [to disobey], so that the husband is furious with him, the angels will curse; keep him from the mercy of Allah's mercy until dawn." (HR Bukhari)
However, it does not mean that the obligation to serve her husband makes a wife unworthy to get her rights as a woman.
Gus Fahrur said that the husband must also understand his wife's feelings. The reason is, there will always be a time when a wife loses the mood to have sex which can be caused by many things.
Therefore, husbands are obliged to have good communication with their wives without resorting to violence if their wishes are rejected.